The Principal IS Your PAL!

Dear Principal,

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Q:  I think something is bothering my son.  How can I get him to talk to me?

A:  Putting worries into words can help your youngster deal with them.  And once you know what's botherng him, you can step in if necessary.
    First, find a good time to talk, such as when you're in the car or tucking him into bed.  You might start by sharing something that's bothering you ("I don't know how I'll get everything done at work tomorrow").  Then ask casually, "So, what's on your mind?"  If he doesn't open up, try more specific questions.  ("How's soccer going?"  or "What are your friends up to?") 
   If he mentions a worry ("I'm not good at soccer"), react calmly and listen as he talks.  Ask questions that will encourage him to say more.  Example:  "Hmm, why do you feel that way?"  Be sure to take his concern seriously.  You might make suggestions, like taking him to the park to practice.  Follow up on your conversation until you feel his worries have been resolved. 
   Finally, share a verse(s) from God's Word to show him that God cares about the things that worry us.  Pray with him and ask God for His help with our worries and concerns.

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. (1 Thessalonians 5:11)